" Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong "

A popular article defines self-confidence as an individual's expectation of performance and self-evaluation of abilities.

Carrying self-confidence is of importance because you develop:

1) Greater sense of self-worth.

2) Boosted energy to take more actions.

3) The sense of inner peace.

4) The realization that perfectionism is neither possible nor desirable.

5) Greater enjoyment in life.

7 WAYS TO BOOST SELF-CONFIDENCE

Here are some powerful tips to build self-confidence:

 

CONNECT YOUR CONFIDENCE TO YOUR GOALS

Set realistic goals. Often, when you set goals that are not achievable, it can lower your self-confidence. It also leads you to not move forward. Set goals that can be achieved. Push a little every time. Use our DAILY PLANNER to prioritise your work and help you accomplish your everyday goals.

When you start accomplishing small goals, you develop the courage to push for more. Slowly, you not only develop self-confidence, but also a growth mindset.

 

STOP COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS

There is a direct link between self-confidence and how you feel about yourself. You are unique. Comparing yourself with others will never help since everyone has different paths in life. Remind yourself about your achievements and growth when you start comparing yourself with others.

Keep a Gratitude Journal to remind yourself of the things you are blessed with in life, your strengths, and the beautiful moments life has gifted you.

 

PRACTICE POSITIVE SELF-TALK

Negative self-talk can lead your subconscious to believe that you can't do anything, that something is too hard, etc. It develops self-doubt.

Practising positive self-talk has a completely opposite effect. It induces self-compassion and reframes your thoughts.

NEGATIVE SELF-TALK	POSITIVE SELF-TALK
I can't do anything right.	I will do better next time.
I can't do this.	How can this be done?
I don't deserve this.	This is an earned opportunity.

 

FACE YOUR FEARS

Even if you feel anxious about the fact that you might fail, go ahead and do it anyway. When you try to face your fears, and move forward, you will gain more confidence. For future too, you will not refrain from taking risks. It builds a character of success.

 

KNOW WHEN TO SAY NO

Learn to say no when you feel the situation is uncomfortable or you don't want to be a part of it. Setting up boundaries can help you feel in control. When you develop this sense, you also build your confidence.

 

ACCEPT THAT IT IS OKAY TO BE WRONG

Confident people are not afraid of being wrong. They see it as a learning opportunity. They take responsibility for it and find ways to improve the situation or prevent it in the near future.

 

MAKE EYE CONTACT

Initially, making eye contact can be uncomfortable, but with time and practise, you can develop it. Making eye contact is a powerful way to exude confidence and also helps you build strong relationships with people in the long term.

 

Concluding, boosting your self-confidence is a journey, not a destination. It takes time, effort, and consistency.

Remember, self-confidence is not about perfection, but about acknowledging your worth and embracing your uniqueness. Celebrate every step forward, no matter how small, and be kind to yourself throughout the process.

So, take that leap of faith, challenge your limits, and believe in your abilities. You have the power to shape your reality and achieve greatness. Embrace your journey, and let your self-confidence soar to new heights!